5 MYTHS OF:
NON-MONOGAMY
Open relationships receive a skeptical side-eye, even though they thrive on massive amounts of communication, trust, and respect.
It’s time to debunk the most common misconceptions about non-monogamy, and open up to a world of authentic connection, communication, and understanding.
MYTH #1
UNCOMMITTED
The myth suggests that monogamy is the sole indicator of a couple's commitment. However, commitment transcends relationship structures and is defined by the unique boundaries and rules that a couple establishes for themselves. It's not about conforming to a specific model but crafting a personalized commitment that resonates with both partners
MYTH #2
SOMEONE PREVIOUSLY CHEATED
While some couples may consider opening their marriage after infidelity, it's important to note that this isn't a common solution. Opening up a relationship in the aftermath of cheating does not serve as a guaranteed remedy to rebuild trust or mend the fractures caused by betrayal.
My partner is my top priority. Our commitment to each other is unwavering, and the level of respect I have for him surpasses anyone else. His emotional needs take precedence over all others
MYTH #3
IT’S NON-STOP SEX
Contrary to popular belief, Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) isn't a constant whirlwind of sexual encounters. Individuals in ENM relationships appreciate intimacy, but the truth is, their schedules still revolve around the everyday demands of work, family, and other commitments.
MYTH #4
ALL NON-MONOGAMY IS THE SAME
It's a common misconception that all non-monogamous relationships are the same. While all polyamorous relationships fall under the umbrella of Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM), not all ENM relationships are poly. The distinction often lies in the level of emotional intimacy shared with individuals outside the primary relationship. Understanding these nuances helps navigate the diverse landscape of non-monogamous connections.
Even within the framework of our open relationship, finding out that my partner had experiences without prior discussion is a relationship deal-breaker for me.
MYTH #5
YOU CAN’T CHEAT
ENM relationships are not cheat-proof, cheating can in fact occur in any relationship. Cheating is not defined by relationship structures but by a breach of agreed-upon boundaries. Acknowledging this reality is crucial in fostering open communication and trust within non-monogamous dynamics.
BONUS MYTH
JEALOUSY DOESN’T EXIST
It's essential to acknowledge that jealousy is a normal emotion. Individuals in non-monogamous dynamics might experience jealousy less frequently, but the key lies in their ability to communicate and navigate through it constructively. Rather than seeing jealousy as inherently wrong, they recognize it as a valid emotion and work together to address and understand its roots.
