By the time I was getting divorced, I no longer recognized the man I was leaving—nor did I know who the woman in the mirror was. I had no idea where I was going, but I knew I couldn't stay trapped in a life that had drained me of my sparkle and shine.

I never saw it coming. One minute, I was laughing at his voice note, feeling that familiar warmth, and the next—my stomach dropped. "We are not on the same side." Just like that, the connection I had trusted for over a year shattered. Now, I’m left questioning everything.

Commitment has long been defined as permanence—a lifelong promise, an unbreakable vow. But what if true commitment isn’t about forever? What if it’s about showing up, fully and honestly, for as long as the connection serves both people?

Some days, I wake up and feel fine. Other days, I can barely move. The weight of the world feels unbearable, and I wonder if it will ever change.

I swore I’d never get married again. And yet, sitting across from him at a tiny Mexican restaurant, I knew—I would marry this man. I hadn’t even decided if I was attracted to him yet, but my soul already recognized him. I just didn’t know the journey would lead us here…

Overwhelmed by perfectionism and the weight of awareness, I turned to the universe for clarity. This channeled message reminds me to protect my energy, trust my role in the unfolding change, and hold onto hope even when the world feels heavy.

Direct communication isn’t mean or confrontational—it’s clarity, honesty, and respect rolled into one. In this story, I share a vulnerable conversation that redefined my relationship, proving that speaking your truth is always worth it.

A quick getaway to Myrtle Beach turned into a revelation about intimacy, communication, and self-awareness. Discover how a simple question unveiled a 20-year struggle and became a game-changer in initiating connection.

Sweet one, why do you keep doubting what you have been sent here to do? When you are finally ready, the abundance awaiting you will require only one thing: your willingness to receive.

What do I actually want in a relationship? That question sat with me longer than I expected. After years of navigating expectations, mixed signals, and societal norms, I realized I wasn’t looking for a fairy tale—I was looking for clarity, depth, and authenticity. Here’s what that means for me.

I can always feel when my world is off balance—when I skip the simple things that ground me and calm my anxiety. Why does taking care of yourself sometimes feel so hard?

Today, my thoughts are racing in every direction—ideas, plans, and creative sparks, all moving too fast to catch. Maybe it’s just going to be a Netflix kind of day.

Dinner on Mt. Washington felt like a dream—stunning views, easy conversation, and the kind of connection that makes time stop. Yet, the night reminded me how choosing peace and healing over spite is its own kind of victory.

Navigating the complexities of dating can feel like walking a tightrope, especially when emotions and expectations start to surface. All I know is that I’m ready to move past the surface-level stage and build something meaningful and real.

Sometimes, "if he wanted to, he would" isn't just a reminder to avoid excuses but also proof that you're worthy of being a priority. When someone shows you they care, it changes everything.