By the time I was getting divorced, I no longer recognized the man I was leaving—nor did I know who the woman in the mirror was. I had no idea where I was going, but I knew I couldn't stay trapped in a life that had drained me of my sparkle and shine.

Commitment has long been defined as permanence—a lifelong promise, an unbreakable vow. But what if true commitment isn’t about forever? What if it’s about showing up, fully and honestly, for as long as the connection serves both people?

Overwhelmed by perfectionism and the weight of awareness, I turned to the universe for clarity. This channeled message reminds me to protect my energy, trust my role in the unfolding change, and hold onto hope even when the world feels heavy.

A quick getaway to Myrtle Beach turned into a revelation about intimacy, communication, and self-awareness. Discover how a simple question unveiled a 20-year struggle and became a game-changer in initiating connection.

What do I actually want in a relationship? That question sat with me longer than I expected. After years of navigating expectations, mixed signals, and societal norms, I realized I wasn’t looking for a fairy tale—I was looking for clarity, depth, and authenticity. Here’s what that means for me.

I can always feel when my world is off balance—when I skip the simple things that ground me and calm my anxiety. Why does taking care of yourself sometimes feel so hard?

Brave decisions shape who we are and define the life we lead. This piece explores the lessons, truths, and practical steps to cultivate courage and embrace your worth.

When you've been told one story about yourself your entire life, it’s hard to believe you have the power to rewrite it. But I did. And in doing so, I built a life that finally feels like mine.