Direct communication isn’t mean or confrontational—it’s clarity, honesty, and respect rolled into one. In this story, I share a vulnerable conversation that redefined my relationship, proving that speaking your truth is always worth it.

A quick getaway to Myrtle Beach turned into a revelation about intimacy, communication, and self-awareness. Discover how a simple question unveiled a 20-year struggle and became a game-changer in initiating connection.

What do I actually want in a relationship? That question sat with me longer than I expected. After years of navigating expectations, mixed signals, and societal norms, I realized I wasn’t looking for a fairy tale—I was looking for clarity, depth, and authenticity. Here’s what that means for me.

Dinner on Mt. Washington felt like a dream—stunning views, easy conversation, and the kind of connection that makes time stop. Yet, the night reminded me how choosing peace and healing over spite is its own kind of victory.

Growing up, I believed monogamy was the only path to love and fulfillment, shaped by family, media, and societal expectations. But exploring the world of non-monogamy taught me invaluable lessons about boundaries, communication, and crafting relationships that truly align with your soul.