Behind every BRAVE DECISION is an archaic belief & a fear that has been manufactured by society.

Until you unsubscribe to the belief and unlearn the fear you will remain stuck and unable to make the brave decision you’ve been thinking about.

Truth Sprinkles help us unsubscribe and unlearn what we once considered to be truths.

Examples of BRAVE DECISIONS & truth sprinkles:

The bathing suit & the water park

Standing at the foot of the bed, bathing suit in hand. What are you going to do? Are you going to put it on and have a kick ass day with friends and family or are you going to wear your cover up and stay under the umbrella keeping guard over the sunscreen?

Thoughts swirling through your mind:

❤️‍🩹 Yikes, when’s the last time you hit the gym?

❤️‍🩹 Do you really think people want to see you in that bathing suit?

❤️‍🩹 What will they say?

You have learned that your worthiness to show your body off and enjoy yourself is dependent upon its size but the truth is:

💛 They won’t say a damn thing, because they are to busy trying to figure out how to bend down and pick up their towel without a mid-section roll popping out.

💛 What if you inspire that mom over there to take off her cover up and make memories with her kids just like you are.

💛 Do you really care what people think about your body?

💛 Does your body define you?

💛 Who told you your body isn’t good enough?

Put on your bathing suit, run around, laugh and make memories with loved ones.

🧁 YOU ARE WORTHY SIMPLY BECAUSE YOU EXIST

The divorce that whispers

It’s not a new thought popping in and out of your mind. Life isn’t good or bad, it just is. Yet this constant wonder presses up against you, making it so you can’t breathe as you envision what else might be out there, and why you are choosing to stay here. Is this the right decision?

Thoughts swirling through your mind:

❤️‍🩹 Are you ready to check that status box on the paperwork from now on?

❤️‍🩹 No marriage is perfect, are you sure you aren’t over reacting here?

❤️‍🩹 Who will become collateral damage if I pull the trigger?

You have been holding the uncomfortable for other people for so long, that you almost can’t separate your pain from the pain of others.

💛 You have been told that successful relationships don’t end and that relationships that end weren’t successful. That’s a lie.

💛 It is not your job to keep other people from getting hurt or feeling pain.

🧁 TRUST YOURSELF YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU.

Committed but unfulfilled

Phone in your hand and dating app open, this is it. You’ve had the conversation with your partner so many times and it’s becoming obvious that your physical needs will never be met. Is cheating ever justified? Are you going to give into your craving for physical touch or are you going to experience bursts of rage over every little thing?

Thoughts swirling through your mind:

❤️‍🩹 Are you really that person - the one going behind your partners back.

❤️‍🩹 No one dies from not having sex, you are making way too big of a deal out of this, don’t you think?

❤️‍🩹 Other than this one thing, our relationship is perfect

Breaking trust is a cop-out. If you want out of the relationship then leave. If you don’t want out your partner needs to be a part of finding the solution.

💛 Do you WANT to continue building a life with your partner?

💛 You and your partner can re-write and redefine your relationship at any point and time, but you MUST do this together.

💛 Have you attempted to have the conversation of your needs alongside a third party professional to help streamline the communication and offer additional support?

🧁 LIFE IS NOTHING MORE THAN AN SERIES OF CHOICES FOR WHICH WE MUST ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY

Moving past the anger

You love your partner and you want this to work, but moving past the lies and deceit they created is not for the faint of heart. You know that holding onto the anger is a surefire road to divorce, but how do you let go in order to move on?

Thoughts swirling through your mind:

❤️‍🩹 Are they telling you the truth right now?

❤️‍🩹 What is wrong with you that made them do this?

❤️‍🩹 The anger is so intense

You have become so skilled at manipulating yourself to be what someone else needs that you have lost yourself entirely.

💛 You are not responsible for your partner’s actions

💛 Why would you insinuate that you are partially to blame, that you “made them do this”?

💛 Is your partner emotionally intelligent enough to grow through this experience with you

🧁 YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THE ACTIONS OF OTHER PEOPLE, EVER.

The only way to let go of the anger is to heal.